How Enneagram Sixes Can Stay Confident When Working From Home

While working from home is living the dream for many, when you struggle with self-confidence, it can be challenging. There's nothing like shooting the breeze with coworkers over a cup of coffee or the boss stopping by your desk to tell you what a great job you're doing to give you the recognition and validation you need.  Without those face-to-face interactions, your confidence can start to deteriorate.

For Enneagram Sixes, the struggle with self-confidence is all too real. As the loyal, responsible type, you constantly fear making mistakes or being seen as incompetent. This can make working from home difficult, since you're always dreaming up worst-case scenarios and being remote means there's no one around to help keep those fears in check.

So how can Enneagram Sixes stay confident while working remotely? Here are six ways that Sixes can boost their confidence and stay on top of their game while working from home.

1. Set a Routine

As a Six, structure and routine are essential for feeling secure and confident. Without the consistency of going to an office each day, it's important to create your own routine when working from home. This could include setting specific work hours, taking breaks at certain times, or even dressing in work-appropriate attire to get into the right mindset. Working in PJ's may be comfortable, but it won't do much to boost your confidence.

2. Create Checkpoints With Your Boss

Sixes have a difficult relationship with feedback. On the one hand, you crave it because it reassures you that you're doing a good job. On the other hand, negative feedback can send your anxiety through the roof. To combat this, create regular checkpoints with your boss to discuss how things are going and ask for feedback. Having quick, regular pulse checks is less stressful than having one big performance review (how much could go wrong if you're only reviewing a week or two of work?!) and it's an effective way to get the reassurance you need to stay confident.

3. Connect With Your Coworkers

Just because you're working from home doesn't mean you can't still connect with your coworkers. In fact, staying connected can help boost your confidence by providing opportunities for camaraderie and support. Set up virtual coffee dates or happy hours, join group chats or simply reach out to colleagues for a quick chat. Knowing that others are going through similar experiences and that they value your input and presence can do wonders for your self-confidence.

4. Keep Track of your Accomplishments

It's easy to overlook our accomplishments when we're not receiving direct recognition from others. To combat this, keep track of your achievements and successes while working from home. Create a list or document where you can write down everything you've accomplished, big or small. This serves as a tangible reminder that you are making progress and doing important work, boosting your confidence in the process.

5. Write a Confidence Mantra

For Sixes, anxiety is often a constant companion, especially when working from home. To combat this, practice mindfulness techniques to help quiet your mind and focus on the present moment.  Additionally, write a confidence mantra or affirmation that you can repeat to yourself when self-doubt starts creeping in. This could be something like "I am capable and competent" or "I trust in my abilities". Repeating this to yourself regularly can help counteract the negative thoughts and boost your confidence.

6. Take Regular Breaks

Lastly, don't forget to take breaks! As a Six, you may have a tendency to overwork yourself, which can lead to burnout and further decrease your confidence. Schedule regular breaks throughout your workday to recharge and refocus. Use this time for activities that bring you joy and help alleviate stress, such as going for a walk, listening to music, or practicing a hobby. By taking care of your mental and emotional well-being, you'll be able to approach your work with renewed confidence.

In conclusion, working from home may present challenges for Enneagram Sixes when it comes to self-confidence. That's normal, and it isn't a reflection of your abilities or worth. The tips in this article can help you stay confident and productive while working remotely, and don't be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you.

In addition, having another read of your Enneagram test report can provide valuable insights into your strengths and areas for growth. Everyone, whether they work at home or in the office, is simply doing the best they can. Revisiting your report can serve as a helpful reminder that you have many talents to offer the workplace, and you're doing just fine.